- Telle San Antonio <3
Friday, February 26, 2010
Nobody's Perfect
What did I learn in Pisay?
Hrm. That is a question that inspires a multitude of answers. In the four years that I spent in Pisay, I learned about calculus, GNP deflators, why urine is sexy and a whole lot more. But that’s probably not the answer you’re looking for, so I won’t bother you with all the gruesome details. Instead, I’ll share with you what I consider one of the most meaningful lessons Pisay has imparted to me.
There was a time during my Pisay life when I picked up the habit of comparing myself to anyone and everyone. There was always something about someone to be envious about, be it smarts, social status, even looks. I found myself constantly thinking:
“Buti pa si ganyan, uno sa Math kahiit di nag-aaral.”
or “Andaming friends ni ganoon, di tulad ko, loner.”
… and then “Sana kasinggaling ko si ganito mag-violin.”
Studying in the country’s premier high school, I was bound to meet loads of amazing, talented and brainy people. I couldn’t help but feel a bit dwarfed and just a tad undeserving. There were thoughts nagging at the back of my head, reminding me of things that only served to further my own insecurity. It became worse, until I became so preoccupied with my own faults that I forgot to count my blessings.
I guess there just comes a point in a person’s life when one starts to question one’s own capabilities. Even people who’ve become masters of their craft are sometimes shaken by that seemingly universal feeling of inadequacy. Maybe this inferiority complex thing is hardwired into our brains, deeply engrained into the human psyche. Or maybe it’s just God’s way of telling us to change for the better.
But anyway, I digress. In retrospect, I realize that I was a very sad person. In fact, that’s kind of an understatement. While everyone else was improving on themselves and becoming better people, I was left behind, wallowing in self-pity.
Eventually though, I got tired of sulking around. It won’t get me anywhere anyway, so I decided to get off my butt and start being productive.
Well, up until now, I still experience the occasional bouts of emo-ness. But instead of falling back into that pit of depression again, I simply remind myself that nobody can be perfect. Not me, not you, not everyone else. However, despite that, we should all strive to be the best individuals that we can be, while acknowledging our limits at the same time (because there’s such a thing as pushing yourself too hard).
Though I fail at Econ (and school… and maybe life in general), and it’s not exactly something to be proud of, I realized that it’s things like these that are meant to be cherished. Because, hey, this is who I am, and I ought to be grateful for that.
We can’t be the best at everything… but that’s perfectly fine. :)
-Bingbong Austria
Hrm. That is a question that inspires a multitude of answers. In the four years that I spent in Pisay, I learned about calculus, GNP deflators, why urine is sexy and a whole lot more. But that’s probably not the answer you’re looking for, so I won’t bother you with all the gruesome details. Instead, I’ll share with you what I consider one of the most meaningful lessons Pisay has imparted to me.
There was a time during my Pisay life when I picked up the habit of comparing myself to anyone and everyone. There was always something about someone to be envious about, be it smarts, social status, even looks. I found myself constantly thinking:
“Buti pa si ganyan, uno sa Math kahiit di nag-aaral.”
or “Andaming friends ni ganoon, di tulad ko, loner.”
… and then “Sana kasinggaling ko si ganito mag-violin.”
Studying in the country’s premier high school, I was bound to meet loads of amazing, talented and brainy people. I couldn’t help but feel a bit dwarfed and just a tad undeserving. There were thoughts nagging at the back of my head, reminding me of things that only served to further my own insecurity. It became worse, until I became so preoccupied with my own faults that I forgot to count my blessings.
I guess there just comes a point in a person’s life when one starts to question one’s own capabilities. Even people who’ve become masters of their craft are sometimes shaken by that seemingly universal feeling of inadequacy. Maybe this inferiority complex thing is hardwired into our brains, deeply engrained into the human psyche. Or maybe it’s just God’s way of telling us to change for the better.
But anyway, I digress. In retrospect, I realize that I was a very sad person. In fact, that’s kind of an understatement. While everyone else was improving on themselves and becoming better people, I was left behind, wallowing in self-pity.
Eventually though, I got tired of sulking around. It won’t get me anywhere anyway, so I decided to get off my butt and start being productive.
Well, up until now, I still experience the occasional bouts of emo-ness. But instead of falling back into that pit of depression again, I simply remind myself that nobody can be perfect. Not me, not you, not everyone else. However, despite that, we should all strive to be the best individuals that we can be, while acknowledging our limits at the same time (because there’s such a thing as pushing yourself too hard).
Though I fail at Econ (and school… and maybe life in general), and it’s not exactly something to be proud of, I realized that it’s things like these that are meant to be cherished. Because, hey, this is who I am, and I ought to be grateful for that.
We can’t be the best at everything… but that’s perfectly fine. :)
-Bingbong Austria
Break.
Featuring Truth and Eme 2010 :> (plus some other batchmates)
Lahat ng bagay ay mas madali at magaan kapag may music.
Halos lahat ng Pisay students ay kulang sa tulog; either kaka-aral, kakaFacebook, o kakachat. Kaya kailangang kailangan ng mga estudyante na matulog kung may pagkakataon.
3. Cramming
Wala nang tatalo pa sa cramming powers ng mga taga-Pisay.
4. Chismax
EME POWERS. :>
5. Foodtrip
Hindi gumagana ang utak at katawan kapag walang pagkain.
6. Aral
Lalo na kung may test, ginagamit madalas ng mga estudyante ang breaktime para sa pag-aaral. Unless ikaw si Nogales, na nag-aaral lang lagi. For fun.
7. Strolling/Bonding
Dahil gusto niyong laging magkasama. :> *ehem*
8. Emo trip
Kailangan natin ng sari-sarili nating moment.
9. Magtext sa girlfriends
Mag-SCORE.
10. Sports
Kailangan maging physically fit ang mga estudyante ng Pisay.
11. Class bonding
Dahil wala kayong ibang makakasama tuwing free period kundi kayu-kayo lang.
Marami pang kulang. Sorry na. :))
- Telle San Antonio <3
Mapa-lunch break, in-between break, dismissal, or walkout break.. lahat ng break ay mahalaga para sa isang Pisay student. Heto ang ilan sa mga ginagawa ng mga taga-Pisay na nakatutulong sa kanilang makaraos sa isang araw (in no particular order):
Lahat ng bagay ay mas madali at magaan kapag may music.
Halos lahat ng Pisay students ay kulang sa tulog; either kaka-aral, kakaFacebook, o kakachat. Kaya kailangang kailangan ng mga estudyante na matulog kung may pagkakataon.
3. Cramming Wala nang tatalo pa sa cramming powers ng mga taga-Pisay.
EME POWERS. :>
5. Foodtrip Hindi gumagana ang utak at katawan kapag walang pagkain.
Lalo na kung may test, ginagamit madalas ng mga estudyante ang breaktime para sa pag-aaral. Unless ikaw si Nogales, na nag-aaral lang lagi. For fun.
7. Strolling/Bonding
Dahil gusto niyong laging magkasama. :> *ehem*
Kailangan natin ng sari-sarili nating moment.
Mag-SCORE.
Kailangan maging physically fit ang mga estudyante ng Pisay.
Dahil wala kayong ibang makakasama tuwing free period kundi kayu-kayo lang.
Marami pang kulang. Sorry na. :))
- Telle San Antonio <3
Mutualism is More Than Just an I.S. Lesson
Mutualism is defined as any interaction between two species that benefits both. This concept was taught to us in first year. In my four years in Pisay, I’ve learned that this concept in ecology comes in very handy in so many ways. To be able to survive the rigors of a school like ours, you need lots of help. And other than for survival purposes, this type of relationship between peers adds fun and FRIENDSHIP to the experience.
In first year, I had a lab gown which I lost after that school year. Since then, I’ve had no lab gown of my own; however, every time I need one, I always come across someone who just happens to have one, or at least someone just happens to have someone else’s. I’ve survived three years without my own lab gown; and I’m pretty sure I’m not alone. If I were to guess, I’d say only half of my batchmates own a lab gown. Most of us survived by “sharing”, not just lab gowns, but also softball gloves, physics materials, pingpong paddles, books, notes, and so much more.
In Pisay, we also practice what we call “cooperative learning”, a system where in we share and compare our answers in homeworks, seatworks, etc. to maximize efficiency and accuracy as well. This does not also help improve grades, but enable bonding as well. The mutualism and cooperative learning are not only done in person, but online too. Yahoo! Messenger usually serves as a medium of mutualism. The average Pisay student would usually ask another student through YM questions like “Ano homework?” or “Anong coverage ng LT?” or “Ano sagot mo sa number 5?” or “Anong oras kailangan pumasok bukas?” or “Ano e-mail address ni ganito?” Moreover, through the years, class blogs that act as “reminders notebooks” and Yahoo! Groups that enable fire sharing have grown more and more popular.
One cannot deny the importance of independence. However, the importance of depending on others and letting others depend on you cannot be ignored. Pisay has been my home for four years; and in those four years, I have learned that mutualism is a life saver. This interdependence has helped me and my batchmates endure all the stress, trauma and requirements that came our way. It has also helped us thrive and grow as people. To me, mutualism is definitely more than just an Integrated Science Lesson. :D
- Nico Reyes and Joanna Perez
Pwnator's Declassified Pisay Survival Guide
Enduring 4 years in Pisay should feel like a huge accomplishment for most, if not all graduates.
As a former anti-crammer (note the 'former' word), I can assure you that those were some 4 years.
Anyway, this isn't directed to the lower batches only, even upcoming undergraduates might need this as well.
I've seen lots of irresponsible people in school, so they probably haven't grown out of their grade school habits yet.
So here are some basic tips:
1. Schoolwork before leisure
Your parents must have been hammering that sentence into your head for the past few years. "Oh, I can always do that later. I'll just play Farmville for a while." is a no-no. Just imagine all the free time you could have after doing your homework...
2. As much as possible, sleep early
In my section, there is no such week wherein there weren't any admission slips given to the monitor. If you're late, don't blame the traffic. You should always prepare for that.
3. Make the most out of your Fridays
TGIF? You'd probably get both TGISes if you finish your requirements on Friday.
4. Try to make lots of friends
Otherwise your stay in Pisay would be pointless. The others are just as smart as you, so don't feel left out. Besides, "teamwork" is important in the 4th year. ;)
5. Even when things are going downhill, be optimistic
Failing Calculus, Economics, Physics and Filipino at the same time? Don't worry. There are situations worse than that, so be grateful that you're not expelled yet, and get back up. :D
Since this is for the country's best scholars, I should nitpick! >:)
6. Take notes. A lot of notes.
Books ain't gonna do much when it comes to big exams. You should rely on handouts (preferrably of someone who specializes in that subject a.k.a. powerkits) to filter out the junk and focus on the core topic.
7. Finish your projects a week before the deadline.
Because the deadline almost always lands on hell week. And you don't want that (neither did we, but what could we do).
8. Study for achievement tests
Sure, we barely learned anything significant from those sleepy lessons. But at least try to get a high score for the school. None of us don't want to be in the worst Pisay branch. :P
9. Bring your bags with you, or find a safe place for them
Because you know, sneaky discipline officer is super sneaky, and you don't want any kleptos to swipe them away.
10. Take advantage of the lunchtime greylist
Why not? >:)
Of course, there are countless others, but this only serves as a guide, not a strict rulebook. So if the lower batches are reading this, good luck and I hope to see most, if not all of you in U.P.. :D
- Joel Ng
As a former anti-crammer (note the 'former' word), I can assure you that those were some 4 years.
Anyway, this isn't directed to the lower batches only, even upcoming undergraduates might need this as well.
I've seen lots of irresponsible people in school, so they probably haven't grown out of their grade school habits yet.
So here are some basic tips:
1. Schoolwork before leisure
Your parents must have been hammering that sentence into your head for the past few years. "Oh, I can always do that later. I'll just play Farmville for a while." is a no-no. Just imagine all the free time you could have after doing your homework...
2. As much as possible, sleep early
In my section, there is no such week wherein there weren't any admission slips given to the monitor. If you're late, don't blame the traffic. You should always prepare for that.
3. Make the most out of your Fridays
TGIF? You'd probably get both TGISes if you finish your requirements on Friday.
4. Try to make lots of friends
Otherwise your stay in Pisay would be pointless. The others are just as smart as you, so don't feel left out. Besides, "teamwork" is important in the 4th year. ;)
5. Even when things are going downhill, be optimistic
Failing Calculus, Economics, Physics and Filipino at the same time? Don't worry. There are situations worse than that, so be grateful that you're not expelled yet, and get back up. :D
Since this is for the country's best scholars, I should nitpick! >:)
6. Take notes. A lot of notes.
Books ain't gonna do much when it comes to big exams. You should rely on handouts (preferrably of someone who specializes in that subject a.k.a. powerkits) to filter out the junk and focus on the core topic.
7. Finish your projects a week before the deadline.
Because the deadline almost always lands on hell week. And you don't want that (neither did we, but what could we do).
8. Study for achievement tests
Sure, we barely learned anything significant from those sleepy lessons. But at least try to get a high score for the school. None of us don't want to be in the worst Pisay branch. :P
9. Bring your bags with you, or find a safe place for them
Because you know, sneaky discipline officer is super sneaky, and you don't want any kleptos to swipe them away.
10. Take advantage of the lunchtime greylist
Why not? >:)
Of course, there are countless others, but this only serves as a guide, not a strict rulebook. So if the lower batches are reading this, good luck and I hope to see most, if not all of you in U.P.. :D
- Joel Ng
99 Things I Learned in Pisay
1. Dapat mag-aral ka.
2. Kapag sinabi mong Pisay ka, ung mga tao, napapa-:O.
3. KONAN. :)
4. You must be stable under pressure.
5. Topic pala sa Physics ang Colors. Kala ko dati pang-Art yun, eh.
6. 1 is greater than 5.
7. Nakakapagod umakyat ng 4th floor. Sobra.
8. Cramming is bad. But we never learn.
9. “And yet, gentlemen. The tao, is constitutionally free.”
10. Kung masama manggulo ng lasing at bagong gising, i-try mong mabggulo ng taong stressed. >:)
11. Ang secret shop, ay di gaanong secret.
12. HINDI IMPOSIBLENG MAKA-PERFECT SA PHYSICS/MATH/CHEM/INSERT OTHER SUBJECT HERE.
13. It really is a crime to forget the past.
14. Sponges don’t have brains, nor hearts, nor stomachs. But they do have holes, lots and lots of it.
15. There is such a thing as an Acquaintance Party.
16. Hindi dahil mapula ang mata mo, may sore eyes ka na. Puyat lang yan.
17. Useful sa everday life ang jokes. Lalo na kapag bonus sa long test.
18. Bawal magkasakit.
19. Sa sobrang daming awards ng mga taga-pisay, siguradong pawis ka pagtapos ng flagcem.
20. Yung akala mong di mo magiging kaibigan, magiging best friend mo pala.
21. Hindi lahat ng sagot nasa choices.
22. “Kite” is a shape.
23. Nanghahatid ang Pisay bus sa Trinoma. :>
24. Your presence means a lot, lalo na pag malaki percentage ng attendance.
25. MAY CURFEW.
26. Para sa mga outsider, kami ay “kakaiba”. Tipong kailangan pang mag-fieldtrip para makita.
27. May bawas sa stipend ang unexcused absence. :O
28. Pwede kang makakita ng Kingfisher sa Pisay pag umaga.
29. You need friends to survive.
30. Pag feeling mo ang isang bagay mali, kadalasan mali yun.
31. Mahirap mag-isip ng 99 Things I Learned in Pisay.
32. Time is of the essence.
33. Di lahat ng teacher seryoso pag sinabing sandali lang kayo magkaklase.
34. No matter what, a 90 degree angle is always right.
35. Masamang di making sa teacher. Lalo na kapag ipapag-recite ka.
36. “Anung ice tea ng mga physicist? Eh di Lepton!” (Ma’am Manuel, Physics, 4th year)
37. Huwag itapon ang mga test paper.
38. NaCl is sodium chloride. Also known as, common salt.
39. It’s not always just true or false. Minsan modified true or false.
40. Teachers can be your best friend or your worst enemy. Depende yan sayo.
41. Masaya bumagsak. Basta lahat kayo bagsak.
42. Do your homework, it’s good for you!
43. Crimson red ang flame test ng Sr+. \m/
44. Dangerous ang soft ball. Promise.
45. Halos lahat ng subject na-aapply sa love. Or at least sa paggawa ng pick-up lines. :P
46. Kakaiba ka kung nagfield trip ka sa factory, tapos brown-out naman. (Coca-cola Field Trip)
47. Masusurprise ka pag sinabi ng teacher na may surprise quiz.
48. Mas masusurprise ka pag inannounce ng teacher na may surprise quiz next meeting.
49. Noong panahon namin, front lob ang tawag sa front lob, hindi “flob”.
50. Internet is a GREAT distraction.
51. There is a Kitchen God. And he has a wife.
52. May fireflies sa Pisay.
53. Masaya mag-stargazing/cloud-gazing.
54. Masakit makinig sa flute. (Lalo na pag umagang-umaga tapos nag-aaral ka para sa exam.)
55. Don’t judge a book by its cover. Karamihan naman ng libro ng Pisay naka-cover ng gift wrapper.
56. Hell week means HELL.
57. Masaya ang bus ride sa field trip. Kaya dapat malayo ang field trip!
58. Handle chemicals with care.
59. Try and try until you die, or until you get the answer right. – Trial and Error method
60. Laging mas mabango ang girls’ bathroom kaysa sa boys’.
61. Don’t be such a bad groupmate. Peer ratings would come to haunt you.
62. Masama magtawag ng nerd. Kasi tingin sa atin, nerd. So yung mga nerd para sa atin, super nerd?
63. Everything has a reason.
64. Maraming levels ang hell.
65. Malling is bad for the soul. :O (Ma’am Torres, ValEd, 2nd year)
66. Di dahil “mysterious” ang caf food, ibig sabihin wala nang kakain nun.
67. Pwede pala mag-mohawk ang teachers!
68. Exciting magkastipend, kaso nawawala excitement kapag offline ang ATM machine.
69. Every end of the year, nag-aamoy daga talaga ang STR room sa SHB.
70. Masaya magkamerits, lalo na pag mas madami sa demerits. :D
71. Pag gusto lumabas, Trinoma ang first choice.
72. Take notes.
73. Lahat ng tao may sariling studying style. May ibang tao, pagtulog ang studying style.
74. You can never be too young.
75. Lahat ng bagay, may opportunity cost.
76. Palancas ang highlight ng retreat, slow dance ang highlight ng prom.
77. Teachers are real people, too.
78. The library is a good, cold place.
79. Astig mag-walk out. Nakakatakot pag teacher ang nag-walk out.
80. MASARAP MATULOG. *bow*
81. Lahat tayo autistic. :P
82. Madalas useful ang old handouts. Mas madalas, nirerecycle ang old handouts.
83. When Math meets Bio, Chem, Econ and Physics, that’s called your worst nightmare.
84. Kung kokopya ka, irephrase mo. Bad ang plagiarism. Tsktsk.
85. Buddha is not necessarily fat.
86. LDMU can be applied to studying. The more you read, the less you understand.
87. May reunion parties kahit wala pang one year hindi nagkikita.
88. Feel mo ang bragging rights pag nasa ibang school ka.
89. Good read ang “The Alchemist”.
90. Lahat nagkaka-nerdy moment. (“Okay pa kaya kainin to? Parang nagferment na yung cheese.”)
91. Ginagamit na basahan sa ibang restaurants ang Pisay skirt.
92. Masaya mag-drawing kapag Econ. :D
93. Alagaan mo book mo. Madaming madaming madaming madaming iba pa gagamit nun.
94. Madaming bacteria ang creek. Sa sobrang dami, pwedeng gawing STR topic.
95. Masaya matulog sa grandstand!
96. Pag malapit ng grumaduate, either sobrang stressed ang mga tao, or super relaxed.
97. After 4 years, whether you like it or not, aalis ka talaga ng Pisay.
98. Mamimiss ko ang Pisay!
99. We are the cream, of the cream of the crop. :D
- Princess Gan
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